
Dear Dr. Dave and Dr. Dee,
Is it really necessary to give tips during the Christmas season to our mail carrier, newspaper delivery person, and garbage collector? If yes, then how much do I tip? We can't afford much right now, so would be it okay to just give a card of thanks?
Signed,
To Tip or Not to Tip
Dear To Tip,
It is not a requirement, but it is customary during the holidays to tip the folks who perform regular services for you during the year.
As with most tips, the amount depends on quality and frequency of the service, and your budget. Instead of cash, a gift certificate or small gift can also be given. If money is tight, then a note of thanks with some baked goodies would be nice and appreciated.
The tipping guide table below is from Emily Post at www.emilypost.com and Jeanne Sahadi from CNN Money at www.money.cnn.com:
CHILD CARE
Babysitter: 1 evening's pay + small gift from child.
Au pair: 1 week's pay or a gift + small gift from child.
Nanny: 1 week's pay to 1 month's pay + small gift from child.
Daycare providers: $25-$70/each + small gift from child.
Child's school teacher: Gift from child.
DELIVERY SERVICES
U.S. Mail carrier: Gifts under $20
UPS: $15 if you get regular deliveries
FedEx: gifts up to $25 if you get regular deliveries
Newspaper Carrier: $10-$30
HOME/CAR CARE
Trash/Recycling/Yardwaste Collectors: $10-$20 each for private service
Housekeeper: 1 week's pay or more
Parking Attendant: $10-$35 each or half a month's rate for the group if they provide extra service.
Gardener: $20-$50
Pool Cleaner: cost of 1 cleaning
APARTMENT SERVICE
Doormen: $20-$100
Superintendent/Custodian: $30-$100 (closer to $100 if no doorman and few staff)
Elevator Operators: $15-$40 each
PERSONAL CARE
Hairdresser: $20-$100 or cost of 1 cut if you go frequently + small gift
Manicurist: $10-$50 or cost of one session + small gift
Personal Trainer: $25, 1 week's pay or cost of 1 session
Massage Therapist: $50-$100 or cost of 1 session
Nurse, private: gift, not cash
Nursing home employees: gift, not cash
PET CARE
Dog Groomer: Up to half the cost of 1 session + small gift
Dog Walker: 1 session to 1 week's pay
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